Category: Parenting

How to find a surrogate mother

One of the most difficult yet important decision in your life will be to choose a surrogate mother. There are many agencies available nowadays from where you can get the contact details of the person who is ready to undergo surrogacy. One of the most beautiful gift in our lives given by god will be children. Next to it will be a surrogate mother. A surrogate mother can gift the couple who are unable to carry their own child. It is important to concentrate on many things while choosing a surrogate mother.

  • Know about the company or the agency from where you are getting a surrogate mother.
  • Read reviews and process of selecting a surrogate for their agency.
  • Check with your friends about the review status of the agency, in order to ensure the reviews are truly given by the customers.
  • Try to communicate with the team regarding your need for a surrogate mother.
  • Very importantly check the health and age of the person who is ready to undergo surrogacy.
  • Decide the fee or compensation for their sacrifice.

Financial background

There are many people who are into this surrogacy process for money. They made this service into a business. Hence it is important to know about the person first. The child will somehow possess some of the characteristics of the surrogate mother. Therefore the person should be well mannered and decent.

Health and age

This is really very important factor that you need to consider. The age range of a surrogate mother should not be below 21 and it should not be beyond 35 years. As the conceiving age of healthy mother lies between 21 and 40 years. It has to be considered. Also check and ensure their medical health to avoid complications in future. Ensure that the person does not have any serious illness which affects that baby.

First, discuss with your family when you are planning to get a surrogacy option and look for a good solution. Then decide the compensation and other things along with the agency to get your work done properly.

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Why Menstrual Cycle Charting is Important

Getting pregnant is not about how lucky you are. It’s all about finding the right timing to conceive. You would want to make sure that the conditions are perfect for the egg and the sperm to meet. The secret is, you should be attentive. Your body will give you hints and clues when it is about to start the process.

            Using a fertility calculator is one of the most effective ways to determine the days when you are most fertile. Aside from this, when you have tracked our menstrual cycle, it would be easy to determine the fertile window. This is the best time to conceive successfully. You can visit some forums, discussions or blogs about menstrual cycle charting and see here its importance in conception.

Menstrual Cycle Charting: How to Do it Accurately?

            The reason why it is important to chart your cycle is for you to know when your fertile days are, just like using a fertility calculator. Most women have 28 days menstrual cycle. This means that you have six days to try to get pregnant every month. The six days will include 5 days before the egg is released and one day when the ovaries already released an egg. Having intercourse in these days is very important if you want to get pregnant.

            When charting, start with the first day of your menstruation. Keep track of the days when you are having your cycle for three to four consecutive months. Once you have an average, you subtract 18 days from the length of your shortest cycle. This will be the first day that you are most fertile.  Then subtract 11 days from the longest length of the cycle. This will be the last day when you will be fertile.

When you are trying to get pregnant, it is important that you know how your menstrual cycle works. You can also visit websites and see here the tips on how to improve your chances of conceiving a baby. It is best if you get an expert advice from your gynecologist as well.

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